I told my boyfriend to heat up my drink he told me no I called him a bitch then he threw his phone at me and gave me a death stare. Is he wrong?
Most Helpful Guy
Both of you are wrong:
1. Why don't you heat your own drink, he is not your slave that you get to order around. You were being a bit controlling and I can see why he was pissed off. You do not own him.
2. You called him a bitch because he said no and not only were you being over the top you were also very rude and hurtful. Name calling just because you don't get what you want is immature and you came across to him as entitled.
3. Now when he threw his phone at you and gave you that stare is what he did wrong and he should not have done.
Yes! it was wrong of him to throw his phone and you and stare in that way but don't go around thinking you are completely innocent because you are not. Next time heat your own drink, don't be lazy. Like I said you do not own him and he is not your slave.
Most Helpful Girl
So, dear.. what you are currently finding yourself in is called an 'abusive relationship' i. e. an unhealthy relationship. If you are calling him names and he is throwing anything at you... it's time to break-up and move on. You shouldn't have the disrespect to throw that word around and he shouldn't feel it is acceptable to even threaten hurting you. (Yes, throwing things at you is a threat.. as is the death stare) Neither of you should be behaving that way toward someone you supposedly care enough about as to be in a relationship with.0