1. Why don't you heat your own drink, he is not your slave that you get to order around. You were being a bit controlling and I can see why he was pissed off. You do not own him.
2. You called him a bitch because he said no and not only were you being over the top you were also very rude and hurtful. Name calling just because you don't get what you want is immature and you came across to him as entitled.
3. Now when he threw his phone at you and gave you that stare is what he did wrong and he should not have done.
Yes! it was wrong of him to throw his phone and you and stare in that way but don't go around thinking you are completely innocent because you are not. Next time heat your own drink, don't be lazy. Like I said you do not own him and he is not your slave.
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So, dear.. what you are currently finding yourself in is called an 'abusive relationship' i. e. an unhealthy relationship. If you are calling him names and he is throwing anything at you... it's time to break-up and move on. You shouldn't have the disrespect to throw that word around and he shouldn't feel it is acceptable to even threaten hurting you. (Yes, throwing things at you is a threat.. as is the death stare) Neither of you should be behaving that way toward someone you supposedly care enough about as to be in a relationship with.
It sounds like you are both in the wrong here. You should not have called him a bitch simply because he didn't want to heat your drink. However, he is even more wrong for throwing his phone at you. Physical violence is not acceptable in a relationship. You need to address this and if he does something like this again or escalates, then you should get out of the relationship because his anger issues will eventually lead to more serious violence.
Of course he's wrong for throwing his phone at you. He should apologize that shit, violence is never okay.
But you're also wrong for calling him a bitch. It also sounds like you were ordering him around to heat up your drink. He's not your servant. Heat up your own damn drink. Unless your legs are broken, then you ask politely and say please.
You both owe each other a sincere apology and need to show some more respect for each other. Don't call him names and don't treat him like a slave.
I want to say it was wrong of him to do that, but he might have felt justified in throwing that and when he stared. (Yes, it was wrong of him to throw the phone and the death stare was unnecessary.) Was this a common regular thing you do, or just out-of-the-ordinary? Do you ask for a lot of help in other things? Depending on your answers to these questions, maybe he felt fed up with the situation.
Why did he do that you don't throw shit at a girl or put your hands on a girl ever wtf is his problem all you did was ask him to do you a favor and he flips out if you ask me that is one childish little asshole
Why couldn't you heat your own drink? I can only imagine him doing that if you're sick or something. It's not that hard to put something in the microwave.. And don't resort to name calling. It's immature.
1. How hard is it to heat your own damn drink? 2. Calling someone a 'bitch' just for not doing something that you wanted them to do is just petty af.. 3. Violence is not the answer. I get that he was angry but he shouldn't have thrown his phone at you and given that death stare. In conclusion: You are both in the wrong.