So, this question is not only for myself, but for a lot of girls who feel very similar. You meet a good guy and be turns into a jerk, but after he changes, your heart is attached. And, you can't stop it. For me, I can't stand my ex's behavior but, I miss him...
When a guy acts like he is considerate, sweet and just a good man. And, then, he changes. He starts to ignore your texts, stops calling and then, he disappears. Or, worse. He lies, cheats, etc. So, why do we feel anything for them? Why do we like them? Why do we want to be with him? Why can't we just ignore him?
Is there a way to erase these feelings? Or, is there a way to explain it? Any advice anyone could give would be great. Thanks!
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Because no one is terrible 100% of the time. My ex had such wonderful sweet moments with me, helped me a lot financially, and I thought he was just overall the perfect guy when he was nice. However, when his bad habits came out, it was a lot of cheating, lying, and a very bad temper! The problem is, we can't cover up someone's "bad" actions with their "good" actions. And I believe that's what they try doing too. At least my ex did.1
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