How do you deal with a guy who got too close, freaked out and ran away? I don't even know what to say. He won't go anywhere I am or my friends are or the vicinity of. What is going on here? He can't even hear my voice on the work radio. He shuts it off. I can't even provide poll questions because I wouldn't know what to ask. I'm left saying "what just happened"?
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Sadly, we try to excuse disinterest by believing someone ran away for being TOO interested. Makes the ego blow a little easier to bear. Guys will claim they are afraid of how you make them feel and it is usually pure BS said to keep you hanging on.
I don't know all the specifics here, but my red flag sensor goes on high alert any time I hear phrases like "scared of how I made him feel" or "ran away because he started caring too much."
Maybe one time out of a hundred it's true, but usually it's what they say to come back or what we tell ourselves because it hurts less that way.0