I tease her a lot so now maybe she thinks I'm not being serious
She is confident to everyone except me. She can't even look me in the eye sometimes but when she does she blushes. I whispered to her "You like me. You have a crush on me. Don't you?" and then when she looked down and didn't say anything, I said "You're not even denying it". She didn't say anything and kept looking down. Another time she decided to take her break right next to me for no reason while I was still working. Out loud I said to another girl "Look. She wants to be close to me" and laughed. My crush wouldn't look up at me or say anything.
She also kept trying to find out if I have a girlfriend but never directly asked me. Before finding out eventually that I don't have a girlfriend, she also said "All the girls want you. But no one can have you right?" and looked sad.
So anyway If I say "You like me. I like you. I'm being really serious" will that work?
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NO!! I used to be really shy and this behavior is only making it worse! You are putting her on the spot and embarrassing her by doing these things. Yes, she obviously likes you, but with shy and bashful people you can't just call them out on it! And the way you are acting is also making her think you are a huge player, because you are obviously confident, but acting very overly confident in her attraction to you so that makes you seem like a huge player. Why don't you try a more humble approach and pull her away from others and quietly and genuinely say that you really are interested in her and would like to take her out. THAT is how you approach shy girls.0