Something that happened to me back in highschool was that my crush, who is 5'7, rejected me (I am 5'9), and the reason being I was too short for her.
I was 17 then, I am 21 now and almost done with college but it still bothers the hell out of me to this day. I still cannot grasp why I wasent tall enough for her when I was in fact taller. And I wasent even a scrawny guy so that she would feel big next to me, I was pretty buff and athletic, so I dont get it.
My question is should I keep expecting this? That is if I ask out a girl that is close to my height, in the 5'7,5'8 range, should I expect to be turned down?
Am I to most girls in that height range too short, eventough I am taller?
Most Helpful Girl
I'm 5'7 and I think 5'9 is alright. Especially if he's a bit bulky. I do find it hard to be attracted to guys who are shorter or just as tall. Some girls prefer even taller. It might be superficial, but it's pretty much something we can't really control. Like people not being attracted to a certain body type, nose or stretch marks etc.
So you might get rejected by some girls because of your height, but so can guys be rejected because they're too tall or girls being too short or tall. That's life and it's not fair.0
Most Helpful Guy
I see a lot of couples around where the guy and girl are similar in height or the girl is taller.0