Do girls ever approach guys or make the first move, approach guys they are interested in, attracted to, does it ever happen? and why do you think a guy is not a real Man, he is NOT masculine, if he does not approach and make the first move? just never understood why guys have always been expected to be the initiators
If a guy makes a move first then I respect him for being open with his feelings. If a guy doesn't make a move first then that's fine too because I understand that people have their insecurities so I defintely wouldn't think any less of them and I would respect their decision not to initiate. Some girls do make the first move and I'm finding that more and more girls are making the first move nowadays as opposed to the past. I initiate with the guys in interested in so I'm usually the initiator in text and I'm usually the first one to suggest that we hang out. The first guy I pursued rejected me but then a few months after I met the current guy I'm interested in and things are working out pretty well with him.
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That's part of life just not being fair and being unjust, and yes some do but sadly not that many
I personally don't... Because i just grew up with that kind of stereotype. But my girl friends do it all the time like its nothing... So I wouldn't say there aren't girls who initiate or go after what they want
But overall great question. But I don't think anyone will have the right answer. It's like asking why the sky is a blue and not purple. It's just the way things unfolded... What can you do?
I asked a woman this and I'll tell you what she said, then I'll tell you what my buddy said.
Woman: A girl just wants to feel wanted, to be chased. Wooed.
Buddy: A woman does sometimes approach a man, but they aren't the type of girls you'd want.
And here is what I say: Its a mans duty to do the initiating. Its his job, and the sooner you realize it and accept it, the sooner you'll get a girl. Besides 80% of men think just like you, that means that if you do the approaching you have a leg up on 80% of the competition.
Girls have always been the submissive ones, while men were the dominant ones. Also, back when we lived in cages, men had to prove they were the best man for her. Just like animals, the male is the one that does the "approach" in most species, and the one that proves they're better than the other male.
Nowadays that women are equal to men, they're starting to approach more, though still, the vast majority or women expect to be approached.