I'm 15, I've pretty much always been shy around girls. Last year (8th grade) I tried talking to a girl I liked and ended up with her number one afternoon. We texted every night for a few weeks, then she started ignoring me and I tried saying hi, she barely talked to me at school anymore. I was polite and never said anything weird Now I'm in 9th grade and have long gotten over her, but when I think of her I get mad. Now I've liked 2 girls this year but haven't taken the opportunity cuz I'm always worried no girl can like me ever since that happened. I just needed to put one of my problems somewhere where I can hear others. I'm so lonely and everyday one of my main problems is that I badly want a girl who would talk to me. I don't understand why she started ignoring me, I'm well mannered and I take care of my hygiene. I really need to hear what others think about this. Thanks.
Most Helpful Girl
Everyone's different, talk to the girls you like now coz sometimes you just need to get a few more tries
if it's any help the guys I liked before my boyfriend turned out to all be douches..0
Most Helpful Guy
Alright bro, I'm five years older than you and I really hope you don't see this as me being an asshole- but you're going to have more bad experiences with women. I was just like you at that age, and I still sometimes think this. However, this is just how girls are these days. Hell, I can't even date someone over a year younger than me because of how they tend to think. It's going to take some practice, but when a girl ignores your efforts, you need to say "fuck it" and move on. In general, high school dating is the pits. I'm sure you're a great dude- it sounds like it from what I see here. But with that comes a lot of struggle before you actually find someone worth your time (I haven't). Just think to yourself that it ain't you, it's them and you'll do fine. :)1