He is moving for the traveling experience, to learn about different cultures, learn new languages, and to grow his brand.
- Yes, and I would break up with him when he left.7% (2)
- No, I wouldn't want to emotionally invest in someone that is leaving.54% (15)
- Yes, I would consider leaving with him to wherever he is going.39% (11)
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I voted B No, I wouldn't want to emotionally invest in someone that is leaving.
Mainly because from my experience, I would be totally willing to do C-leaving with them to wherever they are going. But they would rather go by themselves and find someone new there that is just easier for them I guess.
I've actually experienced this. So for me I would only date a guy if he was planning on making me a part of his future. If not, then I see no point in wasting my time. I've had my heart broken enough times and molded my life to fit with what they wanted to do in theirs, only to have them leave.
The important thing to do is be clear with your intentions and expectations. If I ever find another guy willing to date me, I'll be sure to ask him about his future plans. I usually do with the guys I talk to. I'm not pushing for anything, I just need to know for my own sake. I only think it's fair. If a guy or girl is planning on moving, then they should be up front about those plans. Don't tell the person a week or two be fore you leave ( that happened to me!)1