Why is it that when a guy turns up at a girls house randomly (this has happened to me).. the guy is seen as persistent and romantic, but if a girl does this, its considered creepy and stalkerish?
Most Helpful Guy
doesn't seem fair does it, but true...
Guys are supposed to pursue in nature, girls generally not. what species of female pursues the guy?
* I think the real problem is guys are too weak and either don't show clear signals or aren't setting boundaries. I've had pushy girls... you have to communicate with them so they know what is going on. If the girl is showing up and she shouldn't or is too pushy, he needs to lay down the law. stop being a wuss so the girl knows.
* the opposite is true for the girls.
Most Helpful Girl
I say fight the power :)
yeah its a bullsht double standard that will itself persist unless people oppose it by doing what they want without bothering about petty pissers waxing rational 'trust, s' about the fairer sex.
in my opinion its rat if i make a gesture and the guy freaks out. i know immediately he's a coward and im out. no need to waste time on the morally weak.. they can't be trusted :)
i say be you do what you do and the right guy is going to love and respect you for it. people say a lot of thins.. life is about filleting out the useless noise.0