My ex and I were together for a long time, and he was always doing romantic gestures but my favourite was that whenever he picked me up he'd open the car door.
Maybe some think it's old fashioned but I like that kind of thing 😊
Anyway, I'm seeing someone new and we've only been out a few times. He's really nice, and I don't want to compare but I'm just used to a few little things (like the door for instance). And because it's not what I'm used to its (a little bit) of a turnoff.
I dont want to bring it up and sound like a bitch, but I like a gentleman who knows how to treat a girl properly. If he doesn't do things like that is it a bad sign?
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Most Helpful Guy
Open the car door? Woman please... you can walk yourself to the date that i'm going to end up paying for!
In all seriousness, i don't think it's practical all the time, but if he's waiting outside her house for her to come out, its a nice little touch to have the door open for her.0
Most Helpful Girl
You're exactly right, you're used to a few things and because it's not what you're used to it's a bit of a turnoff. That's completely normal, and I think most of us subconsciously compare even if we don't mean to. From his side, maybe he's just never been told to do that before so it's never even crossed his mind. Think about it from another way though, are there things this guy does that your ex didn't that is romantic as well? Everyone shows love differently. Also if it really matters to you that much, it might be okay to bring it up. If he's that nice I don't think he'd mind.0
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