I'm 25 been with my 25 year old boyfriend for 2 years. We have been living together in my place, and a few days ago my boyfriend moved out, as we have been fighting non-stop. He said we should do relationship counselling, although he feels it is my anger that starts the fights, I agree. Yesterday we got into a huge fight, he walked out on me, while i was crying. He refused to even tell me that he loves me, as he felt he would get hurt. I did a stupid thing, & looked through his phone and saw that he was making plans with his male friend for drinks... it upset me. My boyfriend since, last night has said "leave me alone, i want nothing to do with you", and even refused to go to relationship counselling. Not sure what to do? He still has a photo of us on his facebook, i still have his computer and tv in my place... What do I do? I love him!
It sounds like you got in a fight and he left. He talked about relationship counseling which means he still wants to try. But, he should break up with you if you are looking through his phone!!! That is so wrong. Also, he is allowed to go out with his friends, why were you mad at that? So, what you can do is stop doing this stuff because any man would run away. If you can't then break up. Don't go to relationship counseling, if it isn't working. You are very young and have the rest of your life, just let it go and move on.
If you feel that the fights are your fault (I am not sure that the responsibility should ALL be yours,) then you should make arrangements to begin counseling individually and not as a couple. The counselor may eventually want to see you as a couple, but you need to show your boyfriend how important this is to you.