Why? Or why not?
So here's the thing: I am currently, seriously dating my boyfriend (who's 34 years old) and I'm 21.
So, my parents and family know that I am dating someone and they are mad that I've been hiding him for the past months. They've been pestering to meet him. The thing is, I know they will NOT like him bc of his age. I know it! Mostly my dad. And I don't want them to tell me to stop dating him bc I care a lot of what they think :(
(I also hate hiding him, I know it hurts him) and this was one of the reasons why I've broken up with him before).
Most Helpful Guy
Unless he has serious problems other than his age I don't see a problem w it. Yes your father may be upset for a while, but I think once he gets to know him as a man, especially in how he treats his daughter, I believe he will be ok w it. I understand the Hispanic culture as far as their influence on your life. But you only have one life, live it the way you choose to do so. Your father can only stay mad for so long, especially if he doesn't want to loose his daughter. Is your father older than your mother by chance?1
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Most Helpful Girl
No i'm not doing this for anyone 😒😒 why?
1. I'm not a baby and i can be responsible for my choices 😕😕
2. If he's a good guy then why should i stop dating him just because someone else wants me to 😒😒
3. If we're really happy and in a serious relationship then my parents should be happy for us not to make some excuses such as age gap or skin color or anything like that 😁😁😁
4. It's my personal life not someone else's 😄😄
Anyway you're an adult and you know your boyfriend better than anyone else even your parents and if you're happy then don't leave him for someone and your parents should deal with it. 😳😳😳2