Went No Contact on a girl who I dated for about a month. We were hanging out 2-3 times a week and yes the relationship was sexual. I left for trip and since I got back I haven't been able to hang out with her. She flaked on me twice, I went NC and decided to date other girls.
2 weeks later I decided to follow up one more time. Yes I was breaking the NC but I needed to know. This time I was thinking do or die. Told her she's been a stranger and asked her if she was interested in going out again. At the time she apologized for being a stranger said she was going through things and sick relative. ( it should be noted the sick relative is true and was not made up, but she never took the time to tell me) told her I was sorry to hear that and I put ball in her court to hang out when the dust settles.
Last night I heard from her. Nothing major but I decided to call her out again as I had seen her partying and shit through snapchat with her girlfriends. I told her I had never hung out with someone 2-3 times a week for a month and have them just go cold turkey on me. I wanted to know WTF happened because we were having so much fun then nothing.
Her reply "Hi, I'm so sorry, I've been going through some things. My grandfather passed away :( but I do agree I had a lot of fun with you and want to hang out again :) I apologize I really don't mean to ignore you"
I told her I was free Friday and I would take her out then but no reply and message read.
Whats the thoughts here guys? Should I give her the time of day or just fucking move on. It should be noted I have been out and dating other girls, I actually have a date Saturday night, but me and this girl click on so many levels. I fucking hate games, I don't want to play them but i do want to see her again. The fact I even let this girl get in my head like this is not like me but I'm smitten, don't know what else to say but that.
Most Helpful Girl
She is either playing games or leading you on (while not being interested). Damn some people really need to fucking learn how to reject. They keep using excuses and shit just so they don't seem like assholes. What they don't understand is that they are being even bigger assholes this way. I had this happen to me plenty of times. At one point I just couldn't take it anymore and had to DRAG it out of them that they are not interested and would rather stay friends. Whatever the case is with this girl, the obvious thing is that she doesn't want to hang out with you and that's the only thing that should matter to you. Leave her be, move on. Find someone who knows how to speak their mind.1
Most Helpful Guy
If she really wanted you she wouldn't be off partying and loosing herself she would be with you. Just tell her your moving on and in a year or longer tell her to call you when she has found herself. (Imply as well the sooner she finds her self the less likely you will find another in your voice. Cause she sounds toxic and lost.) Also tell her that your not one to play relationship games.0