So I'm dating this guy and he is in college and has finals coming up in a week. He has slowly stopped answering my texts and calls. He says he isn't ignoring me but I think he is. And the other day he told me to not talk to him until his finals are over. He basically doesn't want to talk to me until they are over which is a week.
is that rude of him to do to me or is it understandable?
I just don't understand how he is to busy to talk to me but can be on facebook, instagram posting stuff and talking to friends but it's just to busy to have a small conversation with me.
Most Helpful Guy
It's finals there is a collage week known as hell week also known as cram week. The term was coined for the week before finals when everyone is trying to study as much as possible to pass. Im sure that he wants his mind only focused on studying right now if he asked you for a week respect it he isn't saying he dosent want to talk he's letting you know that in order to pass his final he can't talk because he needs a no destruction week from you because you do mean a lot to him but that is also why having you on his mind right now may distract him from studying and not alow him to pass. Give him his week and the day of the final and call him after. If you do care for him understand this is his future he's concerned about and he needs one week to focus on that goal. A week fly's by like nothing and after you and him can spend a bunch of time together. It may have been to abrupt how he said it but he must have felt he could tell you that much and you understand what he was getting at. So if you like or love him let him be for a week so he can do well. Hope this helps you in some way.2
Most Helpful Girl
Apparently, Although I feel he is Being 'Rude' and Crude here, dear, He has More important Priorities on th eTo pf his List Than... Me.
You see what I mean and I am sure that you 'See' as well, I can tell, That 'Facebook, instagram posting stuff and talking to friends,' Supercedes You and Any kind of Friendship he wants with You or Anything else down the Not so Fine Line.
Move on, Forget him, He is giving you aHelpful Hint that he doesn't care if You.. See.
He could have been More Polite with his Choice of words and maybe you should not be not so Choosey, Should he find the Time to Text you or Call you.
Good luck. xx0