I am going to keep this short, my dream girl, the girl I had a crush on in class rejected me, she told me she doesn't have have any feeling for me and there is just no chance.
She then kept for the following flriting with lots of other guys in my class which I unfortunately had to be witness to over and over. Now she has a boyfriend who she is always affectionate with in front of me. And when I say in front of me I mean literally two desk seats away in class, during the 10min breaks between lessons.
Whenever I see all this it bring me a lot of emotional pain, its difficult to describe with words. Is she in the wrong, should she show courtesy to my emotions? Or am I just the stupid one here thinking she even owns me anything? Why should my pain be of any concern to her right?
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think that your crush is in the wrong.
I mean... she doesn't really have any liability over the emotional pain that you're feeling right now. The fact that she didn't reciprocate your interest was not a choice she made to hurt you.. that's simply how she honestly feels, and I don't think it would be fair to forbid her from flirting or dating any other guys just because it's not you.
Being rejected will hurt either way. Try to just let go of her and not let things like that get to you.0
Most Helpful Guy
She moved on. You should too.0