I have everything, a job, friends, doing kinda good in college, family, but I haven't had a girlfriend in over two years and she was the one that asked me out!
I just want to share my time with a girl, but I haven't been able to. Being shy is really holding me back and even if a girl liked me she wouldn't show it cos it's not common. It's up to me but I thought I would've stopped being shy by now...
Am I finished?
Most Helpful Girl
Quit whining and do something about it, Jesus. Don't just sit around feeling bad for yourself if you're not even trying.1
Most Helpful Guy
You are not finished because you are going to change! If you don't change, then you have a big problem because girls are drawn to confidence and they generally don't approach guys nor are they good are pushing past our barriers. There are girls that like shy introverts, but it is a lot harder to connect.
The other side of this is women are missing out on what you have to offer (intellect, humor, affection , time, etc..) because you aren't mature, confident and able to approach them like a man should be. They want a guy, but there you are hidden in the corner burried in your beer. What good is that? They are losing out because you aren't able to share yourself and lead.
I was shy and introverted for a long time. You've got to get past that, evolve, heal, grow, and build your self confidence and esteem. Go to counseling and dig through what is causing this. You weren't designed or made this way, you were conditioned this way. FIX IT! Read the book Change your life in 7 days and do the exercises. there is much more you can do, but that's a start.0