Ok me and this guy that I only saw in person once, really liked each other. And we always talked online, on the phone or texting, and once in person. It was awesome and he told me he loved me, that he'd never hurt me or leave me. And that he loved me a lot. And I felt the same way about him. That was like October 2009 to January 2010... But then in the end of January and the beginning of February he stopped getting online and talking to me as much. And then he asked me out, and I said yes. But then for 5 weeks he didn't talked to me. I was lost and confused and I didn't feel loved anymore. I was so sad and I talked to my friends about it, and asked some of his friends to see what was wrong ith him and they said he just ignored them about it or acted like he didn't even care. So I was thinking about breaking up with him, but didn't because I knew we'd both be sad. Then HE breaks up with me! Here's what he said "Umm since I don't talk to you anymore I'm brekaing up with you srry but ur single now" I'm thinking what an ass! I wanted to cry, I was so mad, I felt like I was gonna puke (this was yesterday march 14 and today) And I tried talking to him, but he's just acted like a heartless bastard. So I said this to him " god you know what uve been such an ass ever since like february, and I'm sick of it. I wish I wouldve broken up with you sooner, wut sux is I still really like u" in a text since it's the only way I can talk to him. And I can't get over him. This is my first boyfriend and I don't know what to do with myself! I have all these feeling for him and he doesn't even care anymore
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He was using you for personal satisfaction.
Your frist "bf" I wouldn't really call that a boyfriend, you wee engulfed in his flurry of compliments lovely quotes and bs that he was spewing from his mouth, he didn't talk to you for 5 weeks? Yes, he totally "loves(d)" you. You cannot honestly tell me you love someone who didn't love you in the first place, things like that don't happen when someone truly feeling the emotion called "love".
I'm sorry, but don't talk to him, don't talk about him, and DO NOT find someone else to fill that void you THINK you have in your heart. You'll end up hurting yourself and the guy. Get over him in due time, and don't LOOK for someone, someone will look for you.
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