(please read all) I'm 14 years old (almost 15) and a virgin and I really dont want to have sex yet. I want to save my virginty for someone special like my husband. Not that my boyfriends not special but I mean he's only my boyfriend and we could break up and stuff. I know other people have different opinions on when they have sex but this is just my opinion I want to wait till I'm a little older (I'm not super religious or like a really good kid or anything) thats just my opinion. But whenever I go out and hang with other guys or "flirt" with other guys at school (which I'm not purposely trying to do I dont even consider it flirting) then my boyfriend tells me I owe him sex to make up for it. And i truly do love him and dont want to make him mad. And i know he likes me as well. But like when he gets mad at me he acts all mean or ignores me or we fight which I dont want to do because then he purposely flirts with other girls in front of me. (dont tell me to leave this guy either. I am determined to make this work out) he used to ask for nudes when i owed him something which I would give him but one time he sent his friend who's also my friend my nudes (even tho he said he doesn't want anyone else seeing my body) So I no longer send him nudes so now he asks for sex. And I just dont know what to do. help please? Should I just have sex?
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Let me make this very clear:
sex is something people choose to have with each other, because they want to experience it, and they want the other person to experience it with them.
No one, ever, under any circumstances, OWES another person sex. Sex is something you do because, and only because, you want to.
If he is serious about you owing him sex, then I suggest you be serious about the fact that "he is just a boyfriend and you could still break up," and break up with him. Because if he thinks what you owe him is sex, he deserves to find out the only think he has coming is being single again.0