I grew up in a very strict home, I wasn't allowed to do much during childhood and puberty. My mother was controlling strict and uptight, I feel lost as an adult now... I am 23 amd never had a stable enviroment... how can i become stable?
Most Helpful Guy
In the most technical sense, a controlled, strict environment IS a stable environment.
Just because you did not enjoy it does not mean it was not stable.
How can you become stable now? While they may have been overly strict and harsh on some things, your parents raised you the way they did because they believed in what was being taught to you. So, while you should feel free to loosen up and discover how you wish to live your own life, rather than cast everything they taught you aside and trying to figure out what to do next, I suggest you use what they taught you to develop a stable base from which you can advance from.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm in the same boat as you. I still live with my parents though and will be graduating soon. My parents were conservative as well my dad not so much but my mother was very controlling, and overprotective of me. When I get older I don't want to be lost in life.0