I clicked with this guy I met at the gym and work out two times before we went to lunch. Before that date he used to be so interested and call or text at least once. After the date he didn't cal back so I called him and he never replied. I thought ok he is not interested and leave it that way until I get a text. He asked me why I never contacted him and end up telling me that he didn't receive the call. We talked for 20 minand he said he was busy and would call me back. Now it has been three days and I keep wondering why he didn't even call it bother to text me if he is not interested. Is it part of the game?
How do you know that someone is a player in terms of dating?
What Guys Said 1
No, that isn't a player and that isn't stuff a player would do.
It doesn't sound like he is very interested... It is possible he has someone else and when he isn't busy with them, he shows interest in you. I honestly don't know what is going on1
What Girls Said 2
Typically, players are not consistent and transparent with their actions. If someone is a player, there will always be some sort of unclear, shady situation that you can't seem to get a direct answer to. Something will always not quite add up. Players also tend to be puppets to their egos.
Here's a general rule of thumb to follow so that you don't end up wasting your life playing some silly game. If a guy truly wants you and is interested in you, then he will take the initiate to reach out. You will constantly see an effort to connect. He'll make an effort to actually meet up and do things with another. Otherwise he probably is a player or just doesn't know what the heck he wants.0
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