I dont want to be in a relationship with her, but I wouldn't mind to have friendship with her.
Most Helpful Girl
Just tell her that you are just looking for casual hookups and not interested in relationship with anyone.
I think people lack skills to reject, it means a lot how you reject someone. I had a similar thing happen to me recently. I joined Tinder to look for a hookup. I met a guy there and I wanted to have sex with him. He seemed very interested, we flirted and we went on a date. I was really just looking for a hookup, even though I liked him more then that. Eventually he told me that he doesn't want to date me because he's not ready for a relationship and doesn't want to hurt me. I was really surprised, I thought I gave an obvious sign that I'm not looking for a relationship either, and I felt not good enough even for a one night stand. He asked if we could stay friends and well I agreed but the crappy feeling is still there. I still want to have sex with him, at least one time lol. Sex doesn't change anything to me. I guess I should've been more opened about what I want and he should've explained it better, because now I have a feeling that he rejected me because I'm not attractive enough for a hookup.0
Most Helpful Guy
Pretend to not notice her signals that she is interested and treat her as though she was any other friend.
I have done this a lot to women for the past 25 years. Women on the high side of 30 hit on me almost everywhere that I go. Just yesterday I was at a professional seminar and two women hit on me in ways that stopped just short of them dry humping my leg.
My interest level was and remains zero.
I have found that pretending to be clueless about such signals works fairly well.0
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