I went in a date yesterday he was lovely but he dominated the conversations ! For 5 hours lol , he went on to much about exes and work I'm a good listener but it's put me off , it's a real shame because I liked him , I'm not looking for sex hook ups and he knows this but he was telling me I need to live a little and have fun , I do live my life and just because I'm not looking for sex hook ups I feel he's judging me and basically saying I'm boring , I just know what I want a relationship... I'm so confused
What's to be confused about? You wanted it to work out and it didn't. Now you can try and convince yourself otherwise, maybe you'll even succeed for a time being, but sooner or later you're going to realize that this guy is not a match.