its been a few months, but there is still some feeling there for my ex. I met someone else, he's a total gentleman, but would it be fair on him if I started dating him if I still have feelings for my ex?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, if only dating
otherwise you might get stuck in that ex-cycle... more than you know marry-divorce-marry-divorce same person and can't break loose.
Dating gives opportunities to experience a potential better fit, free of the problems past, revelation that all things DON'T have to be stressful.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well, I'm in the situation where I did decide to get into a new relationship despite feelings for the ex. I think I'm probably not the best person to answer it, but It's my belief I guess that if you really cannot stand to not be with this amazing guy, perhaps it will work out. It will take time, but eventually you will move on and forget all about your ex as you get to know this guy more and your feelings have a chance to grow. It does feel a bit unfair to him, but I've been up front about it from day one how early it is for me and I feel like my relationship will work out and I have just cut off contact with my ex and try to not mention him around the new boyfriend. Follow your heart and good luck! xx1