I just never understood this. When men clearly deep into their 40's try talk to me I shut them down completely and immediately because I just assume all they want from me is sex definitely not intellectual conversation that's for sure. But if not "just sex" what other reasons are there that they do that?
Most Helpful Guy
The first reason most men talk to women is sex, whether they are 40 or also your age.
Some of them are also open to and interested in more. I'd guess that older guys are more likely to view younger women as 'just for something casual'. On the other hand, older guys are more likely to be looking for something serious than guys your age, so in the end, it might be a wash.
Men tend to like women who are attractive, sweet and charming. Those aren't really things that older women have over younger women. Men don't really care much about experience and so on when it comes to attraction. Personally I'd rather, from a companionship standpoint, a smart young woman then a woman who happens to be my age but i don't get along with as well.
I'd also say that generally men, more than women, seem happy to become emotionally attached to women who they feel protective of, and are happy feeling like the stronger/wiser one in a relationship.
Of course most of the time? Sex. But not always.0
Most Helpful Girl
I know this one.
1) They want to date someone younger to make themselves feel like they are still young and/or attractive.
2) They want someone who will be impressed by the things they do. (Ex: A 15 year old would say "OMG, you have a nice car)
3) They want to have something young and pretty to nurse them when they are old.0