Long story short, met this girl at a party she ended up sitting next to me, chatted and found out we had similar interests. About a week or two later i matched with her on tinder.
Started chatting pretty much continuing from where we left off and got her number. Asked her out for drinks , her response was, yes and it sounded good but could it wait till after she had finished her final exams, because she was really busy studying.
I've thought of two possible options.
option A - don't reply/contact her again and see if she contacts me in the future.
Option B - reply something on the lines of no worries and good luck with her exams, then go off the grid and see if she will contact me again.
What should i do either option a or b?
Most Helpful Girl
Or option C, do what she asked, go out with her after her finals.0
Most Helpful Guy
never been on tinder but this seems basic to me.
Option B sounds not needy (that is good), respectful of what she just requested. I'd add to it, I'll followup with you on XYZ date (after her exams).
That way, she knows you are interested, you are showing how great of a communicator you are, and a leader by being the man and giving guidance with followup... that requires discipline. Now she has an expectation.
To be honest, I'd say, I'll call you around XYZ date. texting sucks as a communication mechanism... it is so easy to mess up a text. It is much better to talk. She will very much admire you.
Option A sucks, is rude, a game, and childish.
do you see the difference? I hope so...1