I have been seeing one of my good friends for the past month and a half. We text/snapchat 24/7 and hang out everyday. This also happened right after his break up with his ex, he admitted to me that the first 2 weeks we were seeing each other he was still getting over her. During that time, the second week I had stopped hooking up with him because I didn't want to be a rebound.
Anyways this weekend we went away with a group of friends, one of our mutual friends used to have a crush on me and found out about us right before we all left. Because of this neither of them talked to me much during the trip. I also had two more of our mutual friends tell me that I was pretty much just his slam piece until he was ready to settle down again and find someone else. This caused me to get upset, get drunk, and proceed to get the hottest guy around us to follow me around with puppy eyes until he planted a kiss on me right in front of the guy that I was seeing. One of the girls on the trip told the guy I am seeing them to go make out with someone else then and then he left the group.
That night and then next day he hardly looked at me and honestly I felt he got a slightly mean at times. Then today we hardly spoke. I realized I was being immature and messed up but I want to know if you think he is upset about that or maybe he just doesn't care anymore? I set up a time to talk to him tomorrow night because I really want to apologize to him because really he is the only one I want, even if we end up just being friends I don't want to lose him.
Most Helpful Guy
In all probability he's upset but that doesn't mean he doesn't care anymore.
Emotions are not something you can simply turn on/off when you want.
Although it is entirely possible for a stronger emotion to overpower the previous so you might want to be careful in the future. A kiss isn't the worst thing in the world but people have been driven to hatred for far less.1
Most Helpful Girl
If you're just his "slam piece" then he's not worth it.0