My boyfriend gets angry at me, I know I mess up but recently it was because we might not be spending as much time together because I could be going to work on weekends... anyway
Whenever he's angry I can never call him because he doesn't want to call especially when he's angry and sometimes he says a lot of hurtful things but I know he doesn't mean them. What can I do to calm him down, I try everything but I'm not a very confident person :(
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Wood absorbs water, as they say. Meaning, that wood represents a very direct approach, and water, represents a very passive approach. Water is good in a lot of situations, but it doesn't seem to work very well when people are coming at you aggressively like that. You give too much of yourself away to appease them. Don't give too much of yourself away like that. Be steadfast to what you know to be true. Maybe just try a more askew approach?
If he's being a dick, let him be a dick away from you. There needs to be consequences for his actions.0