I've had a long time coworker, friend and neighbor for about 3 years now, always messaging me. Recently my boyfriend moved out and my friend took me to dinner and tried to get with me after... he talked about how perfect he thinks I am, and about children and marriage, about me moving in with him etc... He even wants to take me on a trip this weekend. Not sure if he is just saying things to try and sleep with me? Or if he is serious? How do I find out?
Most Helpful Guy
you may not know until it unfolds, or just state your boundaries/rules up front as part of a yea... that sounds great, just understand I'm a high quality girl, I like to get to know someone really well, etc.. etc..
I wouldn't turn someone down because of an asumption.0
Most Helpful Girl
He could be obsessed with you, and is voicing this now because boyfriend's out of the picture, or at least out of where you are currently living. He could possibly be serious but overall this all just comes off creepy to me. The constant messaging, the children, the marriage. He definitely isn't JUST trying to bed you.0
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