Hello guys, I am a guy, but I accidentally made this account "girl" because I thought I would never use it later. But I'm asking this question out of curiosity.
So, here I go. I am an average Korean guy. There is nothing special about me. I study hard, treat people with respect, walk tall to emphasize my 6 feet height, and have trained myself to control my body very well in order to appear confident. I don't want to sound like a show off, but honestly, I really do consider myself charming and assertive. However, if I had to rate my face I would give myself 5/10, maybe 7/10 for a Korean guy. I only weigh around 145 pounds which is very skinny for my height. I don't work out. In fact, I am a marathoner so I am naturally very skinny. I have pretty narrow shoulders and limbs. Just a typical Korean guy here. Nothing special.
However, I've noticed this year that I have been attracting a lot of beautiful women. Either short or tall, green / blue eyes with blonde hair, nice body, smart, cool personality, etc. Women around 7-9.5/10. When I'm minding my own business or walking to my next class, many of them will be staring at me. I like to pretend like I don't notice, so I just look straight ahead. But when I look at them, they give me a smile or look away nervously. Some of them will bump right into me, others will instantly fix their hair / clothes when I walk in a room, and sometimes they will touch their hair and turn their head right when I look at them... I do not understand. I am aware that there are many other guys that are way better looking than me. Why are they attracted to me? Is "walking tall" and "assertiveness" really THAT attractive? Aren't there other guys who have those things AND are good looking?
There is a good chance that your body language is making girls curious about you. A lot of girls know how to tell a confident, assertive guy from an insecure guy. Also, many women are tired of good looking men who play on them. Maybe they think that you are boyfriend material, even though you are not the best looking.
Also, there is a possibility that you are overthinking the body language. People stare at other people all the time. Don't persuade yourself into thinking that all girls are attracted!
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Why do beautiful women go for average men? well, the term beautiful is subjective what you find beautiful i might find ugly or average. You find yourself "average" but those girls may find you smokin' hot. But , yeah it's 100% more common for hot girls or girls in general to be less shallow and go for average to ugly men. Stupid men on here Insist that girls are so shallow but when do you see a hot guy with an average to ugly girl? he almost always dates the hottest girls. Every guy dreams of having the most beautiful woman. They are more shallow sorry dudes. Now, to answer your question , if he has a good personality and charm his looks won't matter to most girls i said "most" because i know their are a few girls that are indeed so shallow and can't accept anything that doesn't look like Enrique Iglesias lol but, yeah most girls with an actual brain wouldn't mind and you seem like a cool guy. Xo
Because the most important thing to women is "security" and as well "are they desired". By being confident in yourself (projecting that positive energy), they feed off of it and feel secure. your size may be helping matters in conjunction with your presence.
Yes, talking tall and assertive... being confident in yourself and projecting energy is key to being successful with females. You've unlocked one of the mysteries to the core of the female!
Believe your eyes. Women find you attractive. Lots of people are far more attractive than they know. I thought I was terribly geeky in my 20's. Looking back at old photos I see a really cute guy. My wife was the same -- she was very attractive but never thought of herself as attractive.
You are carrying yourself in a way that grabs there attention, yes women like confident, assertive guys. Like the saying goes "fake it till you make it", now that you have the confidence the ladies are taking notice. I say good job, and stop comparing yourself to other dudes. Take it as a complement okay.
A lot of girls like attention. Yes confidence gets their attention because it means less work if you like each other. She doesn't have to guess if you find her attractive. Gives her a good feeling. You are also presenting yourself as important, subconsciously you will be given more attention and naturally more desirable. first impressions.
Are you sure these girls are doing this in response to you? You seem to notice a lot of really minor things and are giving yourself a lot of credit. Are they really staring at you or just looking at you because you are walking past? I am sure that you are getting some extra attention, but may be misinterpreting some of it too. Either way, are you sure you are not that attractive? I notice guys based on how they hold themselves, dress, confidence, etc. You could be average looking but if you seem confident and unique in some way, I would be intrigued. That is probably what it is.