We broke up a week ago :( He was an honest and loyal guy which I liked, funny and affectionate but it didn't feel like love. Once he said don't confuse affection with love etc
I get him video games all the time, we play co op, watch movies etc. We only ever hung out at his house or mine, and he wouldn't be interested in doing anything else eg hiking/kayaking/dinner with me even though I usually pay for everything, I cook for him all the time and for his family.
I don't mind that he never took me out on a date, I treated him on a 5 week overseas trip, we had fun but he said stuff like 'we're just having fun, you can't force me to love you' 'thanks but don't think I owe you' etc. When we have sex he wouldn't look at me either and he always slept facing away from me the whole time.
But he was very honest and loyal. Eg he'd tell me his phone password and stuff
Are there better guys out there?
Most Helpful Guy
OMG! Yes, you can do much better than that. He doesn't value you at all. I can only imagine why in the world you would give so much like that... are you insecure, think you aren't attractive, way out of shape? Yes, you can do better... way better.
Stop giving him anything especially yoru affection. He does not like you and is using you. A relationship should be two people contributing something of value to the others life, loving the person as they are. You've conveyed nothing that he is giving other than existing with you.
Most Helpful Girl
yes... this guy was honest with you... forget him...
the person you'll want to become is the person that will come to your life too.0