Am I wrong to ask that to a person I've been on 4-5 dates with? It's kind of a make or break thing because if he doesn't agree then I'm out. And he said he talks to other girls but I'm the only one he is dating.
- Yes in my opinion it's too soon56% (9)76% (16)68% (25)Vote
- No, more than a enough time44% (7)24% (5)32% (12)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
With your added update, I would imagine 4-5 dates is the appropriate time to ask to be exclusive. And you may want to rephrase your question to ask about exclusivity; it sound like you don't want him to interact with half the human population, which is obviously not only ridiculous but impossible. But with what I think you meant, yeah I would say you've hit the point that is okay. But also consider the progression of the relationship. Has there been physical intimacy, or have the dates been platonic and casual? If it's the former, I'd say your golden asking to be exclusive.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think you have any right to ask him to not see or speak to other girls. You realize he may have friends that are girls, right? You aren't allowed to dictate his friends. If that's what you plan to do then you should honestly just leave the relationship. He deserves much better than someone who is so lacking in self confidence that they need to control who he hangs out with.0