Am I just undateable? I am 21 and have only been with two (short lived, so destructive that cannot be remotely considered as romance) guys. I feel like I am undateable because I like a lot of guy stuff and I think like a guy.
- hard rock music
- video games
- playing guitar
I don't wear any make up and stuff (don't feel the need to) but I do make an effort in my appearance. I think like a guy in the sense that I don't gossip about people, I don't create or enjoy drama. I don't do the hooking up thing, I am a monogamous person and I feel like that puts people off. Most guys (and girls for that matter) my age don't want to be in a relationship, instead they just want to 'have fun'.
The guys I do like either friend zone me or don't like me back and so I feel like I'm never good enough for someone to like more than just a friend. I do want to put myself out there but I'm not 100% sure how to and to be honest I don't want to be with someone that just wants to be friends with benefits.
Most Helpful Guy
My current girlfriend is ur type and u know what? SHE'S THE BEST girlfriend I HAVE EVER HAD. I don't need to think twice about something before saying it to her. it just feels awesome that she is so clear with me she doesn't play games. she doesn't even have 1% of drama in her personality. She has the same interests that I do. On the other side she cries and she cares about her appearance etc... just like any other girl.
it's like saying that ur boyfriend is too emotional and u want a bad boy type of guy. it's a preference and that beta guy will end up finding a girl who is mature enough to contain him.(sorry for using beta tho)
In the same way u will find a guy that will appreciate u and doesn't wanna be hanging on WhatsApp waiting for ur replies because he doesn't like immature childish games. I think friend zoning has more to do with how rapid the engagement is the faster it is the easier to be friend zoned just give it time and learn more about flirting because flirting is a major key in this scenario.
Most Helpful Girl
You sound awesome (:1