I'm a black girl and I prefer to date white men. In fact, I am not attracted to black men at all. But I have a hard time finding white men. I'm not loud at all and I'm usually easy to become friends with and easy to hold a conversation with. So I don't see the problem. Any suggestions?
what do y'all think?
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Its called competitoin, their is a lot of demand for white men, asian, latino and black women want to date a white man. White men are less likely to reply to contacts.
Her is the results of dating attittudes on okcupid
The question relation do you want to dating someone with your own skin color or racial background showed a big difference, between race especailly for black women. Even black men don't really want to date black women, only 11% said they would like to date within their own race.
Time article "Seeking My Race-Based Valentine Online" feb 10
"And if recent studies are any guide, relatively few women on mainstream dating sites will bother to respond to overtures from men of Asian descent. Likewise, black women will be disproportionately snubbed by men of all races." Even black men don't want to date black women.
Some have sugested a genetic explaination, black women have masculine traits and are least desireable, asian men have the most feminine traits and are least desirable. Then their is the social steriotypes and media portrail of black women argument.
Keep trying its hard but not impossible.