My ex boyfriend broke up with me last week because he wanted to grow by himself as a person and now was not the time. It was difficult but I don't want to wait until he thinks it's time because I want to protect myself from being hurt if he finds someone else (he's very volatile, he could love you one day and break up the next) which is what he did to me.
I am 20 years old, was wondering if I'll ever love someone again. He was my first boyfriend and we dated for a year. Has anyone else dated better people after breaking up?
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry to hear about that. If it's your very very first relationship then it's more than likely to occur. It's' just the reality of it, no relationship is absolutely certain or guaranteed to last forever, things change, people change, and there really isn't anything you can do to control or prevent the situation from changing.
You are still feeling attachment toward him, then just take time off and keep yourself busy with what you want to and like to do. Don't dwell on it. You can Not control how your boyfriend thinks, acts, or feel. If he is uncertain about being together with you, he may have second thoughts. It will take time to heal if you are still feeling hurt. Time to meet up and talk with your other friends or relatives and hang out with them, and get any support and or advice that you may need from them.
Find something productive that you can do and have fun, even if it's time by yourself. Don't rush into some new relationship or rush back into the dating scene or you might make haste judgments. Healing emotionally requires patience.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah. I lost my first when I was just turned 21, we were together 2 years, and I felt like I would never feel that way about someone like that ever again, but I did and I loved him even more and then that all fell apart after 4 years and now I love someone else... hopefully for the last time. So yeah, there is hope :)1