I need Guy's perspective... so I've been having this flirtation/ seeing a guy I work with for about 2 weeks. From the get go he has been very clear on his interest in me which I appreciate.. no games 😊 He calls me, we face time almost every night for hours before bed and text at work and try to meet up... He has a kid full time so we can't really hang out too much... So anyways I asked him what he wants and he says " I want you" so I'm not sure if he means just sexually or dating? We havnt gone beyond kissing and he makes jokes how his kid wants a second mommy lol. What do you honestly think guys?
thank you 😘
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It could be said various ways, there isn't enough context to know. you really need to just ask him what he means.
1 I want you "in my life", as my woman, girlfriend, wife, etc. e. g. LTR.
2 I want you right now (I don't read it this way based upon how it was conveyed)
I'm going with door #1. If he has a kid, he knows better than to fool around although he's going to want that (it is a male right;). But he knows the consequences... at least I hope at that age.
P. S. saying #1 two weeks in... that is premature. Its infatuation... you are smarter than that, at 34, to know if anyone is thinking straight. It means he's interested though! Get to know him if you are interested...1