Hey everyone, I just felt like sharing and getting some opinions so I decided to post this. I'm 22 now, but I just rounded up since I turn 23 in just a few months and I have hardly any dating/sexual experience and no relationship experience at all. I have only been on one date and only had sex once, which was last summer right before I turned 22. Since then, I haven't done anything else and will probably be turning 23 without having dated or had sex again while I was still 22. I have also never had a girlfriend and even though I have just a little bit of experience in those other ways, I still have no relationship experience. And I know that inexperience is a turn off to most girls, so its a catch-22 because a guy my age can't get a girlfriend simply because he hasn't already had one. I don't think that very many girls would want to be a 23 year old guy's first girlfriend and most girls in my age group have already been in relationships and had sex more times than I have, so they probably want someone with a similar level of experience instead of almost none. They even did a survey poll a few years back that showed 51% of women wouldn't date an inexperienced guy, so I definitely believe that a majority of girls won't date a guy for that reason. It makes me not even want to bother with it anymore because I feel like I would just be facing rejection after rejection because of this. That's why I'm trying to learn how to do without and just accept the fact that it probably won't happen, and its becoming easier to live that way every day. I left this discussion open for girls to respond, but i probably won't take those answers seriously since most girls lie about this and say that its not a turn off and that they would date an inexperienced guy if they really liked him, but that's usually a different story if they met a guy like that in person and some have even admitted to me that they were lying and were only saying that to be nice.
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Dude just lie. You literally save yourself the trouble. Girls being able to tell when a guy is a virgin is complete Bullshit. Many guys who are experienced are still nervous and shy and girls claim the guy is a virgin when he's not. And vice versa many virgin guys act super confident and cocky and because of that girls claim he's experienced if he says so. They literally base their judgement on a guy being a virgin or not on whether he's confident or not because they have this stupid logic that experience=confidence. Just lie and fake it they are not half as good at figuring this crap out as they think they are.1