i met this girl and it was not love at first sight. overall a great girl, sense of humour, flirting skills and quite good at it, cute laugh, nice smile... a lot to offer. she started to grow on me... plus we had a great connection and talking about anything and everything. even had sexual innuendos and discussion sex a lot.
but she would snap at me whenever she would feel i did her wrong (though the reasons were kind of childish, no offence). and though she once approached to have a discussion regarding such a childish situation (initiative which i found nice at first), the discussion turned into her saying that I am to blame for the whole situation and also threw some words around there that i did not like. not swears, but telling me i have issues and no education. i did not say anything bad about her in the whole discussion. not one word. i once was nice to another girl (but not compliments or flirting. nice as in being a gentleman) She bluntly asked me if I am looking to get laid with that other girl and if this is the reason i am being nice to her... i kind of started to feel tired about these moments, so i kind of backed off. she is still a great girl, but those things were a bit strange to me.
It all depends if I like her or not, if I do then I wouldn't mind at all. Possessiveness and being clingy comes from trust issues and I dont think this should be a deal breaker since we ''all'' have issues, nobody is perfect. With something like this, things can be worked out and ways can be found to build trust and a stronger bond in the relationship.
by the way, I also believe any woman, no matter how sane she is, if pushed enough can become crazy.
Any guy looking for a serious relationship l'd say yes reasons why listed below. 1. Possessive behavior in relationships is a form of obsession which pretty much guarantees loyalty & a little worship.
2. Crazy in a good way is considered corky which is attractive quality for women to have. The same way women are attracted to a tiny bit of jerk in a guy. Guys are attracted to a tiny bit of crazy in a girl. My ex-gf use to microwave her cereal not oatmeal I mean like "Cpt Crunch" because she liked her cereal soggy. I thought it was weird & adorable lol.
3. As for sneaky that's a hard one because if you're possessive, odds are you'll clash best with a guy who also has clinging attributes. If he was being sneaky what would you assume he was up too? But if you mean horseplay sneaking up on him then yeah that's fine. Also he might be okay with it a little mystery is always nice
Depend on how possesive and crazy she is. "Don't be with another girl or i'll kill ya" crazy like is a no no. Crazy like trying new things or expressing yourself to the world not giving a single fuck can be quite hot in my opinion. Yandere is a no no for me.
Can't date someone possessive regardless of how they look.
Most problems women have are likely to be over looked the more attractive he finds her. Also the better the sex is, and if she can cook. Men will be more willing to deal with the problems or over look them, the higher she rates in these things.