Okay so I've just been on a date with a guy I met online. Unfortunately he came across as extremely cheap (complaining about the price of marshmellows for 5 minutes straight), told me he doesn't like his family at all and they're all psychos and just generally talking about miserable topics during the date. Constanlty checking his watch and asking me if I had any plans later (hence I was left with the impression that he didn't want to see me again either). There were some positives but a lot more negatives than I can get over :/
He just sent me a text saying he had a lovely time and that he wants to see me again next weekend. Now in the past I've simply ignored guys that I didn't want to see again, but I'm wondering if there's a better way I can do this? A more gentle way.
So what would be the best thing to say if I were to text him back and let him down? Or do I just ignore him?
I think you should be a lady and reply to him. Be nice as just text back "Sorry, no." If he doesn't get the message then you can be a bad ass bitch and write him all this you said about him. I feel like it'll be more fun this was lol.
I think you text him back and say your not interested in anything. Say maybe you want to be single and didn't realize that till the date or its too hard to date and your not interested in dating anyone right now. Ignoring people in my book is childish and I applaud you for taking a step to find a better way to deal with things