I was dumb enough to have a friend with benefits and then develop feelings for him. I told him that i want to be more serious but he always avoid the topic. He gets jealous when i am around other guys but still doesn't want to be serious with me.
Yesterday after sex, i told him that if he doesn't want to commit with me, I will dump him and look for someone that does! and he told me that "no guy will want me for more than sex"
That was awful but he still call me and text me.
Most Helpful Guy
that is his way of controlling you and it is sick and childish. He gave you his answer didn't he and you should stick to yours. Block him and move on. He isn't worth your time... be thankful you are getting away from him and fine someone who deserves you.
Take time to heal from this, talk to a counselor to help you establish some healthy parameters around relationships and undo the lie he told you, get yourself feeling emotionally healthy. then go out to look for someone. It is worth a little bit of your time to re-boost your self esteem and you hvae plenty of time left to do so.1
Most Helpful Girl
He is just being a Meanie now to get your own Goat, and to fix his Tail... Cut him off for awhile and let him Wail.
He is trying to Get you where it Hurts, In your own Heart. He is never going to change, He will always be in it for the Fun, and Knows that with being Territorial, Which he is, You will probably not find another Someone.
I am not seeing this Relationship of No Benefits to You, Going anywhere Except down the Tube with Jiffy Lube.
It's your Choice how you want your own Life of Strife to go. You know what You are looking for and so does He.
Good luck. xx0