I am 16 and I never had a boyfriend. I have never been asked out on a date, the guys I have crush on never seem to like me back. I am now afraid of being forever alone. I know I am still very young and have plenty of time to find a boyfriend. I am just worried no guy will ever look past my flaws and accept me and love me for who I am on the inside and out.
Just be yourself and don't focus on getting a boyfriend. It will make you obsessive. Be a nice person to be around with, without seeming desperate for a boyfriend / relationship. This way people will get to know yóu. And this may sound strange, but be fit. Take up a sport if you didn't already, like running, or martial arts, and be healthy. You will radiate confidence.
When I was your age mostly everyone in my school was into gangster hip hop. I am a nerdy gamer skateboarder, so I didn't really like any of the girls at my school except 1 & no body at my school really liked me. Every weekend I'd go running at this other high school & a cheerleader like instantly mugged me and we dated for a year. What I'm trying to say is high school is a popularity game. Even the most attractive girls can feel ugly because of what the majority think is cool at the time. You're young tons of guys are gonna throw themselves at your feet eventually just don't rush it you'll end up getting hurt or taken advantage of
You're just too young to find true love right now , i am not old too either , so sometimes , i also question myself , will i find someone , or i won't? The answer to this question we don't know yet , it's a tricky situation , so i'll say let's be optimistic and we'll find true love.
I know it sucks to have that creeping feeling that no one will love you or accept you, but you're right: you're young, and you have a long time to find someone. It may not happen this week, or this month, or even this year, but some day, all the waiting will be worth it, and you will have someone that will make you smile and who will love your flaws! Don't worry, it's normal to get anxious about this stuff. Heck, I am too sometimes. But remember, it's okay to feel that, and it won't last forever. The right person will find you and love you for who you are when the time is right :)
Girlll enjoy lifeee. These boys are young anyway and are confused just as you are. Enjoy your life, play, go out, spend quality time shopping, talk to your friends, gossip. Enjoy your childhood and the boy time will come when its the right time.
I have the same problem. Have had boyfriends but not really serious ones. My crushes never like me, but there have been 'typical nice guys' that told me they liekd me. I rejected them. I feel like I might have to 'settle'
I'm in the same boat as you, it seems as if I'm the biggest prude of all my friends, but I have to believe there is a guy out there for everyone even if we haven't met him yet. Everyday I am sure that you and I are making someone smile with out knowing. It takes some time though, go to college and meet new people there. Who knows you might find your husband there.