how would girls feel about a 29 yo male who's never dated and never had a girlfriend? Would it creep girls out? I have no social life and I don't know anyone except coworkers. I just don't know how to connect with people or even where to meet girls either
Most Helpful Girl
My advice would be to keep that fact to yourself until you know she likes you.
For women, hearing that a man has never been in a relationship let alone a date will send up all kinds of red flags - rightly or wrongly. So this is a fact that is better served by keeping it to yourself.
Once you are dating a girl and you know she likes you, then share it. At that point, she will be surprised but it will be a happy surprise. She will be the one that found the diamond in the rough. lol!
As for figuring out how to connect with people and/or girls - I suggest doing online dating (edating) and/or join some groups to practice this. Meetup is a good website to find groups in your area and it is a good way to just start meeting strangers - male and female.
Meeting people is a skill so it is something that can be learned. You are not born with this ability though some may naturally take to it more than others. It is still a skill. And since it is a skill, it is something that can be learned. And the best way to learn something is by practice.
Good luck to ya'.2
Most Helpful Guy
I'm actually 35 and the same, and I don't feel weird at all about it. If you believe, think or feel it is weird then maybe it is weird, otherwise ignore whether it is or is not weird.
Join a club or something. Check for local groups at http://www.meetup.com or something.
Or try dating apps.
It won't be easy, but you will have to try and do something about it or things will always be the same day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year, etc. for you.
It's going to be intimidating at first, but you'll have to work towards becoming confident that you really don't give a shit or care what they think about you and come up with some clever and interesting things to say to them in public.
Try any or all of the following place when looking for ladies to talk to:
Bars, dance clubs/night clubs, libraries, shopping centers or malls, coffee shops, gyms, various events or conventions.0