Can a guy really be just friends with a girl he used to like?

Over this past year I've had a thing with this very sweet, shy guy. Before me, he had liked a long time friend that he never really got close to and never hung out with alone (always their group of friends). He is very honest which I like and admitted he found her pretty once, and still does when I asked. We're taking a break this summer because I was upset he never made us official. He's never had a girlfriend or even a first kiss before me. He will be hanging out with this girl he used to like at her graduation and retake a photo they took at his own graduation a year ago. Also, they'll be playing together in a volleyball tournament. Should I be worried? I can't even sleep at night because I'm terrified everything we've had in this past year won't matter if them spending time together makes those feelings come back.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • nah. this ain't Dawson's creek

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Thinking she's pretty doesn't mean he didn't dies like her.

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What Guys Said 3

  • Nope! He still wants to either sleep with her or date her secretly

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  • never in my life

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  • 99% times, no.
    Very rare 1%, yes.

    Here I don't think you should be worried to the extent of losing sleep. React only if you sense something wrong and you're sure about it.

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