So I've been up thinking about this and I can't stop! I'm 16 I'll be 17 next month. It's been a long year very hurtful year for me but I've actively improved myself (learning to deal with emotional pain) but basically my goal this school year was to make an actual friend rather than acquaintance and get my first girlfriend (big one) but as always I've been teased, bullied, and rejected very disrespectfully about my appearance. I'm not fat but I'm short, skinny, I wear glasses, and I'm kinda linky. Girls are like my biggest bullies always putting me down. What I'm trying to say is how do I find a girl who can see past my so called nerdy appearance? why is it that all my acquaintances have girlfriends but I don't when we all have the same preferences and tendencies? How do I find a girl who will give me the time of day when I've never been told anything positive about my looks (except my mom)? What kind of girls will actually listen to what I have to say and except a date?
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When i was 16 i had classmate George. He was kind of guy with whom girl like me can talk about everything. He was a good friend material. And we were kind of friends.
Everyone thought he was a nerd. Girls and guys bullied him and laughed at his appearence. I thought that he was weird but he was a nice guy. The problem was that he had no friends not to mention girlfriend.
First thing that he changed in himself was making friends. He found friends in our class not the most popular guys but who cares, friends are friends and they make us stronger. When girls saw that he had friends and he was no more lone weird guy, they also started making friends with him. He found friends and thus he found himself.
Remember before girl becomes your girlfriend she should be your friend. Not everyone thinks so but i believe its necessary to build a good relationship.
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When he was 17 he changed his style drastically. And when he came at school one day we were like ''wow''. That day we found out that he was handsome. Girls started talking about him in a good way some of them started liking him.
When i met George after graduation he was a man, stylish and desirable. He got girlfriend when he turned 18 and now he is one of the popular guy in his university.
In spite of him being bullied and laughed at, he managed to make right friends and right choices.
I wanted to tell you the story of George, because when i remember my school days i always remember George as a good friend and as a symbol of change.
I am sure there is nothing wrong with you. But i'm sure there is something wrong with your choices.
The fact that you have no friends is the result of your wrong choice in the past. And you should make them, you need friends as a fish needs water. And believe me if you find friends and if you find yourself girls will find their way to you.1