Generally speaking: - Even our own girls reject us for whites. - Approaching a girl doesn't work. - Girls don't approach us. - If we do secure a girl after trying super hard, all it takes is a white guy to walk by and say hi for her to drop us like a bomb.
This is depressing. I feel absolutely worthless. Like it's the end for me. We are born with a racial disadvantage. Which is why I gave up dating :)
Stop whining, for fucks sake. Do you really think a woman will choose a whiner? Seriously. Why don't you go out there and charm the fuck out of a girl? I'm tired of all these Indian men complaining about being Indian cause no girl likes them, maybe, just maybe, the reason is because many of you act like little kids? There's more than 1 billion Indians, and unless they built them in labs, they all came from the union of a penis and a vagina, a man and a woman fucking. If they could do it, you can do it too.
Work on educating your people. Indian guys have a Bad rep for a reason. So many of them just loves to creep on girls, and they do that with no fact whatsoever. And they do that to any girl. Literally. I've had guys I bet are older than my dad hitting on me. I've Seen how divorced middle aged men are looking online for foreign Virgin brides. Hypocrisy! And the way many Indian guys stare at girls... Has been a topic of several questions on gag. Just search for "Indian stare" or something. So yeah... Sorry but there is a reason why your people have a Bad Reputation.
I have seen many white guys complaining about being single so life is not unfair just our attitude to life is wrong
Unfortunately, life isn't fair. You either deal with it or let it make you a bitter twisted version of yourself. Complaining won't get you anywhere and you aren't owed anything. Focus on being a good person instead of thinking you deserve a woman just because.
I'm an Indian girl who dated an Indian guy. He was not "tall, rich or buff" as someone said. In fact, he was nerdy, lanky and not rich. The problem with most Indian guys is that, they don't know how to talk to a woman. And that does not necessarily has to do with romantic pursuits. I have come across many creepy guys on internet and sadly, most of them were Indian. A Indian guy here asked me if I was a virgin, after we barely exchanged few messages. Is this the way you talk to a girl? When I said that it's none of his business, he said that I was saying so because I am not a virgin. Don't you think this is creepy? Am I supposed to show my intact hymen to this guy? He's not alone. There are many many Indian men who are like that. Many friends of mine had similar experiences. So obviously, we have our guards up if a guy approaches us, even if he is a genuine guy. In case of me and my ex, we were friends for a fairly long time. When he asked me out on date, we were sipping tea in college cafeteria. He didn't go all suave or romantic or anything like that. If you want to ask a Indian girl out, befriend her first. Let her know that you are genuine person. I'd rather date Indian guy than a white guy. But then I live in India.
Most Indian girls I see on dating sites are looking only for Indian guys. In fact they are probably the most frequent women to limit their choice to only their own ethnicity. So if there is a problem it is due to the idiotic culture that leads to genocide of female babies.
As anywere in the world, that depends on the cradle you were born in. If your family owns Tata, you won't have to try hard. If you're just another Desi, ... it's like being just another Chinese or American or European or...
Life is unfair, yes. Is it because of your race? I'd say no. As a white/hispanic I can confirm that it's just as hard for me as it is you. Confidence is a major part of it. Be confident in yourself, and if she drops you that quick, then move on. She obviously wasn't the one for you.
I don't have any problem with girls tbh Specially girls from different countries are more interested in me than Indian girls. But yeah we have a bad reputation cause of those creepy guys who act and talk like jerks to girls. I don't care much. I'm awesome the way I'm so just be confident and you'll rock
Indian girls date outside the least after Middle Eastern girls so I don't know what you're talking about there. But yeah, dating can be super hard if you're an Indian guy. You need to compensate your racial disadvantage by being either really light skinned, rich, tall, or buff. If you're at least one of the four then you have a shot.
Look bro in the Caribbean i see Indian girls preferring Black guys a lot more than Indian guys. Some like White/Black etc but most Indian girls at the end of the day prefer Indian guys. I have a lot of friends living in the U. S are with White girls, Black girls, Latinas u name it ! A lot of girls play hard to get for a reason but some only want u to try harder. IN the end of the day it comes down to you, learn game and get those girls
The problem is that you're an outsider because you're not in your own country. A white guy would have it tough in India. Hell, Indian girls in the US don't even want to date white guys. But, that's just the way it is.
Well if India wasn't known for raping women for shits and giggles that would help.