Example. you're too nice or what not. like a guy with a good upbringing and etc who treat people with respect and thus "nicely" is told time after time that he didn't get the girl cause he's too nice and the girl didn't see the man in you?
What the Fuck? this is the most puzzling thing i read on some of these questions and on reddit. then people say be yourself in the next 5 lines after that.
why would/should anyone change who they are to get a partner in life?
by the way i hate the term friend zoning (Hence the " ") but i feel like its the only way people would relate here
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I wouldn't take it that way honestly. I can see how it totally comes off that way, but if I were to reject a guy because he had something I wasn't looking for, I wouldn't go and tell him to change it, I would tell him to find a girl who DOES like that about him. So for me, if you're "too nice", you're "too nice" (this is dumb in the first place) FOR ME, but that's not me telling you, "okay go be mean and other girls will like you."0