What are signs she's not into you during a first date?
Updates: Most Helpful Guy
Not initiating any conversational topics.
Bored or looking on her phone. Avoiding eye contact. Dancing around certain subjects brought up. Not reciprocating physical contact. Avoiding a kiss. Most Helpful Girl
if she isn't spreading her legs, she isn't a keeper
What Guys Said 6
she looks bored
she's constantly on her phone instead of focusing on you (some can't help it but this a big one) if she's flirting with someone else while you're there
She looks like she's bored and wants to get out of there.
If she's lively when talking to you/listening, body language, smiling and having a good time, if she compliments and works to qualify herself to you
She looks bored or not into it. She checks her phone or she looks like she's really listening. Not added to the conversation
You can tell from the body language most likely. If she's just dragging and watching the clock, she's not into you. If she's enthusiastic and talkative, she may be into you.
What Girls Said 4
She doesn't bring up the topic of a next date, i. e. "Next time we should..."
She looks bored, doesn't contribute to the conversation, tries to pretend to contribute to the conversation by saying 'yeah' and 'ohmygosh' and giggling when what you said wasn't funny, goes to the restroom a lot.. I could go on for hours.
Spends all her time using her phone.
If she keeps checking her phone all the time or if she runs the hell away from you screaming, then well... she is not that into you!
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