I don't know if I'll ever find a better guy. I'm only 19 but I wanted my first boyfriend to be my last and he broke up 2 weeks ago, won't talk to me etc.
He was a great and funny guy despite being volatile and afraid of commitment, but I felt like he loved me at one point. I spent less time with friends and argued with my family cos of him. They didn't like how I was in law school, and I payed for his holidays and movies, cooked for him and his family whenever I stayed over, bought movie tickets etc when he didn't have a job and only liked playing the video games I bought him. But in the end he still left me because he didn't love me he said. All the time spent on holidays was either eating or going to computer stores to find parts cuz he was building his own computer (which I paid for mostly). I didn't argue or anything. I'm not submissive and I'm independent but all I wanted was for him to be happy.
What do I need to do for my next relationship?
Most Helpful Guy
You didn't do anything wrong except try to make it work when it wasn't.
Next time, expect more. Be ready to move on if he's not giving you as much back effort wise as you're putting in.1
Most Helpful Girl
Unmm I think the question is was this guy good enough for you? You can do way better! You're so young, you'll have sooo many more guys and relationships in the future. I know it doesn't seem like it now but one day you'll look back and think "wtf was I thinking?" Haha watch, you'll see.1