i met a guy recently- we had met years ago and not talked, he's visiting again and we met up. He was nicer this time and seemed to take an interest in me. He was the one showing interest. Even inviting me to stay at his resort to get away from another guy who was bothering me. He even drove to my area to hang out. He even was sort of mentioning marriage- sort of in a subtle way. Like he was financially free. last night we had drinks, then outside i mentioned i have 6 cats. He didn't seem too bothered but u could tell he was. then five mins later, he said it's late and he has to go. Then he sort of tried to force a hug out of me, which I thought was weird. Then when I get home he texts me saying "too bad u feel uncomfortable around me." I dont even know why he said that. I said what?
then he said well he tried giving a hug and i wasn't interested. I told him i do that with everyone. so far he hasn't tried anything like this. did he act weird cuz of the cats?
Did this guy lose interest for this reason?
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No, he said it was because of the awkward hug. So, it was the awkward hug. Guys are very straightforward. What did you do that made him feel that way? I am not a huge hugger with most people and can be socially awkward with affection but I have never come across as that uncomfortable that I know of.0
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I think you're the one who acted weird...0
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