I matched with a guy on tinder. I already left his city, but he messaged me after I left. He's been messaging me everyday since. Asking what I'm doing on tinder. He keeps checking my bio and joking around on why I'm changing it. I asked him why is he checking on it. He said he's bored and my pictures are interesting. Okay cool- so he asks me about my tinder experiences. I asked about his. He says he met a cool girl and been a few hook ups. Cool. I'm too nice and I don't like to leave people hanging. I'll feel bad not responding. But I already know we are in different cities, he's bored and we might not meet each other. I'm always a hopeless romantic and thinking maybe he sees something in me but then my realistic side kicks in and destroys my fairytale. Lol. I don't want to catch any feeling while I'm 75% at the I don't care phase. 25% of him is catching my attention though. Should I unmatch him? Or wait until he stops messaging me?
- Stop messaging him-- unmatchVote A
- Just keep talking, you never knowVote B
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I seriously do Not give Tinder a Good name with any Dick or Jane But... One never knows how it goes on behind the Computer curtain.
You just said 'I already left his city,' So perhaps you can make arrangements to go Back and meet up with Jack?
Keep Messaging and see where it Might go. More than likely he wants to just play around but it might be fun anyway to Paint the town Red, No one says you have to go to Bed.
One thing to always remember in Any Dating Site.. Don't wear your heart on your Sleeve, Should they just up and Leave.
Good luck. xx0
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