I am 28 and I live next to this family. The family has a 14 year old daughter and I have caught her checking me out and smiling at me. I don't plan on dating her right now, but when she is 18 I would be interested. How can I send her the message that at this time we cannot date but I would be open to dating her when she is 18?
Most Helpful Girl
Keep this a Secret that Only you Know with No... Show.
If word gets Out to Mom or Dad, They will Be Mad and All hell will break out that you are a Perv who is after their Little Girl.
Keep it light and Very Semi Sweet for now. And if anything changes in the Love Line in Time... Make it Her and Your Business until you both get Better Acquainted as two Mature Adults.
Good luck. xx1
Most Helpful Guy
Hopefully by then she will wise up and date someone her age. Just you saying to a 14 that I would date you at 18 still sounds disgusting.1